Perfect Birthday Gift

Perfect birthday gifts are hard to come by. You wnt to get something special and unique - something that'll touch on the special things that the two of you have shared. The problem is of course that the shops are full of birthday gifts that're NOT unique.

The Solution to you perfect birthday gift dilemma of course is to have something specially made. You want something thats fun as well? If you've got a little imagination then you can get a one-off bespoke game made for your special birthaday gift.

A personalized game of monopoly might not sound like the perfect birthday gift at first. However you're not considering the fantastic levels of customisation. Imagine the place names "Mary's Smile", "Jack's Bar", "Our first kiss", etc. The sky's the limit.

What's more the title deed cards, the pictures, EVERYTHING is customizable.

With a minimum of effort you'll knock their socks off! Special moments shared by the two of you will be imortilised.

You want a perfect birthday gift? You want a Personalized Monopoly board.


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Should you date a Russian Woman?

There a many reasons men choose to date Russian Women. Some say that they have a natural beauty that's not found in the west. Some say they are better at sex. Others say they just want someone different. But before you blindly click on a gorgeous woman, think.



Whatever the reasons, the number of men who choose to date russian women is rising rapidly. It is however to be armed with some facts, rather than blindly playing 'Russian Roulette'.

You need to know what the woman is after. It's true that Russian Women are more sexual, however woman from reputable dating agencies are also after a long-term partner.

It also pays to research the woman in question. There should be plenty of her information on the site, and contact details so that you can get to know each other a bit quite quickly.

For the men who do their research they usually end up with a gorgeous woman who's intelligent and fun, and likes to travel.

Elena Petrova's Find and Marry a Russian Girl E-book has served as an excellent starting point for many men.

For a review of the e-book explore Russian Women. It details how a western man found and married the girl of his dreams (Elena), and exactly what had to be done to make it such a success.

If you've got a bit of determination, then there's no doubt that a Russian woman can make a fabulous bride. However beware of the hundreds of Scammers out there. The two most trusted sites are Elona's Models and the Aurora - Russian dating agency

Casual Dates

Casual Dates - Do's and Don'ts

We all know that going out on a casual date is likely to be much more successful in the long run. Because it's clear to both of you that it's "Just Casual" there's a lot less pressure. Less pressure of course means that we're relaxed and don't get tongue tied.


If you ask your friend for casual date suggestions they'll come up with the usual boring old ideas : 'how about lunch instead of dinner'; 'What about going to a football game/ tennis match/ tiddly wink championships' etc etc

All well and good- they ARE casual... But are they really going to be swooped off their feet?

Mini Adventures

This is the latest (and probably best) idea that's taking the country by storm. Preached by Michael Webb in his now famous book, the idea is that you get a casual date (ie no pressure) but that it's also a Terrific Date, that'll have her/him thinking that you're amazing and just DYING to go out with you more! This is done by structuring the date so that it's a mini adventure with all the excitment inherent in an adventure.

This is one unorthodox idea that actually works.

For a full review of the system check out Casual Dates.


Want to know more about flirting?
Our Suggestion : Flirting with Girls

How to Flirt with girls

Knowing how to flirt is one the most important skills a guy can have. No matter how good looking you might be you'll be struggling to get a beautiful woman unless you can at least develop a rudimentary ability to flirt.

Good looking girls get hit on all the time - often by good looking guys. You need something that'll push her buttons. Knowing a bit of the science of love will help here - Enter the art of flirting.

In many ways flirting is like teasing - except that she knows that you're not meaning to insult her.
So the real challenge is finding ways to insult her?
Yes but also to make her feel safe and secure, and hopefully to make her laugh with you.

Flirting should above all be playful and harmless. If it's not then you're going to cause offense, and you'll end up doing the 'walk of shame' back to your friends at the bar.

For most people having a drink or two helps to relax their social inhibitions and helps them to flirt with girls. Just don't overdo it, no-one likes someone who can't control themselves.



Feeling stressed out and wondering how to flirt with girls? Well You may be suprised that women actually feel as nervous as you do about talking to someone they don't know very well, and also frequently resort to a small drink.


It's very important that she realizes that you are attracted to her for flirting to work. This sounds obvious, but it's amazing how people can get the wrong end of the stick, especially when you're doing some gentle teasing.

She'll get the feeling that you are attracted to her (and her to you) mostly by your body language. Reading female body language is an essential ability if you're not to make a complete ass of yourself.

Most people assume (wrongly) that flirting is mostly about what you say. They overlook the massive importance of body language. For example simply saying 'How are you' can have vastly different meanings depending on tone and body posture and accompanying gestures.

Simple factors like where you look when you're listening (look a her face - eyes and mouth a lot) compared to when you're speaking (you can look away a little more) has been shown to have a large effect on the response of women chatting to men.

Most people end up overdoing it and looking TOO MUCH at her eyes such that it just 'feels' unnatural.

For more in-depth information :

Body Language Flirting

Flirting With Girl

Valentines Day - Post Mortem

Another Valentine's day over . For many of you it will have been a day of triumph - with a monumental 'Big-Up' of suspense, followed by a sweaty-palmed palipiation inducing giving of a Love Token, followed (hopefully) by an OUTPOURING of romantic gushiness.

That's the traditional model anyway.

Over the past few years however we've noticed a new trend that NO-ONE has so far commented on. What has been happening under our very noses is a transformation of Valentines Day from a day of mutual love and attraction (with exchange of tokens), into a day where Girlfiends EXPECT ever increasing gifts to be provided for them.

In effect Valentines Day is becomiing GIRLFRIENDs Day. With more and more emphasis being placed on providing spiffy 'Oh-My-God' inducing presents.

Now that the day is officially in 'the past', and the hormones have settled down to a rythmic hummm, lie back and reflect - was it about love? Or was it a Commercial Success??

Maybe we should embrace this new shift - and push for balance. A Boyfriends' Day! I can think of a few excellent gifgts right now!

Love + Hugs xoxoxox

Photos for on-line Dating

We've already covered how essential it is to upload photos of yourself when submiting yourself to the critical gaze of the online world

Very Important
Don't just send in the last snap your drunken buddy took last Saturday night [which all too many people seem to do - probably thinking this shows they are 'fun'. It doesn't it makes you look UNWELL.

Too many people seem to relish showing off their WORST features.
I've personally transformed peope's response rates by getting a Great photo - specifically taken for them.

What you want:

A Head Shot
Turned part-way away from the camera
SMILING
[Too many idiots don't even smile, and so deserve to get Crap Replies]

Get the background OUT OF FOCUS - this makes you look waaaaay better

Don't stare at the camera - you'll look like a police mug-shot. This is not for your passport!

If you've got a great body then submit three-quater lengh photos as well [no need to see your feet].

Women : If you want responses from Good Guys [not pervs] then leave something to the imagination.

- Happy Dating

On-line Dating - Simple Rules for Success

When posting your first submission to match.com (or wherever)
You MUST follow at least these simple rules :

1. Always post a photo of yourself (no matter how gross you think you are!)
This gives you CREDIBILITY - which is like gold-dust on the net
If possible post several photos - especially some showing that you've got a sense of humour (or at least can smile)

2. Your posts/decription should STAND OUT
Whatever you write should be different from the other 1.3billion posts

3. Put in something FUNNY
This is essential. Think : If I was talking to someone, I would want them to find me witty, right?
Exactly the same applies to your post

Remember Despite what you're being asked to do (Enter a Description), what you're really doing is posting an ADVERT of yourself!


Rookie Mistakes to Avoid :

1. Don't talk about sex
At least not until you've got to know someone quite a bit better
Otherwise the WierdoCreep alarms will be going off in people's heads

2. Don't put down ANYTHING negative about yourself (or anything else for that matter)
You'll look like a miserable git once it's in print
If there is something that you feel you must mention (e.g. physical limitations, ginger hair, scary maniacal laugh) then put a Positive (&funny) spin on it!

3. DON'T BE SHY!
Confidence (in Men & Women) is attractive.
Down 2 bottles of wine, and just write as if you're MR BIG / SUPERGIRL
Press Send

- Happy Dating