Saturday, 31 March 2007

How to Flirt with girls

Knowing how to flirt is one the most important skills a guy can have. No matter how good looking you might be you'll be struggling to get a beautiful woman unless you can at least develop a rudimentary ability to flirt.

Good looking girls get hit on all the time - often by good looking guys. You need something that'll push her buttons. Knowing a bit of the science of love will help here - Enter the art of flirting.

In many ways flirting is like teasing - except that she knows that you're not meaning to insult her.
So the real challenge is finding ways to insult her?
Yes but also to make her feel safe and secure, and hopefully to make her laugh with you.

Flirting should above all be playful and harmless. If it's not then you're going to cause offense, and you'll end up doing the 'walk of shame' back to your friends at the bar.

For most people having a drink or two helps to relax their social inhibitions and helps them to flirt with girls. Just don't overdo it, no-one likes someone who can't control themselves.

how to flirt with girls
Feeling stressed out and wondering how to flirt with girls? Well You may be suprised that women actually feel as nervous as you do about talking to someone they don't know very well, and also frequently resort to a small drink.

how to flirt with girls
It's very important that she realizes that you are attracted to her for flirting to work. This sounds obvious, but it's amazing how people can get the wrong end of the stick, especially when you're doing some gentle teasing.

She'll get the feeling that you are attracted to her (and her to you) mostly by your body language. Reading female body language is an essential ability if you're not to make a complete ass of yourself.

Most people assume (wrongly) that flirting is mostly about what you say. They overlook the massive importance of body language. For example simply saying 'How are you' can have vastly different meanings depending on tone and body posture and accompanying gestures.

Simple factors like where you look when you're listening (look a her face - eyes and mouth a lot) compared to when you're speaking (you can look away a little more) has been shown to have a large effect on the response of women chatting to men.

Most people end up overdoing it and looking TOO MUCH at her eyes such that it just 'feels' unnatural.

For more in-depth information :

Body Language Flirting

Flirting With Girl


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